Creating Smile Moments: How to Make Memories That Last a Lifetime
Create new Smile Moments this holiday—turn shared time into lasting memories with fun traditions, laughter, and intentional joy.
“Life is a beautiful collage of priceless moments and memories, which when pieced all together creates a unique treasured masterpiece.” – Melanie M. Koulouris
The holiday season is a time of connection, laughter, and reflection. It’s a time when families gather, sharing meals, stories, and joy. Without fail, when you haven’t seen each other for a while, someone always kicks off the magic with:
“Hey, remember that time when…?”
What follows is a burst of laughter as a treasured story resurfaces. And then another: “Oh, and what about that time…?” Before you know it, you’re all piecing together a beautiful “collage” of what I like to call Smile Moments—those unforgettable snippets of time that make you grin years later.
We don’t remember happiness like a movie—smooth, linear, and neatly packaged. Instead, it’s more like scenes or snapshots. A patchwork quilt, with every square a moment of joy, stitched together into the masterpiece of our lives.
TIP: This article by Elemental dives into “The Power Of Positive Memories” and the science behind how these positive memories help protect us against stress and depression.
Why Smile Moments Matter
Smile Moments aren’t just about nostalgia—they’re about well-being. Research shows that positive memories not only lift our spirits but also protect us from stress and even depression. Reflecting on joyful experiences helps us navigate tough times and re-center ourselves with gratitude.
So this holiday season, don’t just remember the Smile Moments—be intentional about creating new ones. Here’s how:
Three Ways to Create Smile Moments This Holiday Season
One: Turn Everyday Moments into Shared Adventures
Whether you’re cooking dinner, decorating a tree, or cleaning up after the holiday feast, turn these “chores” into fun group activities. Add music, divide tasks with a smile, or share stories as you work. Remember: the little things become big memories when joy is woven into them.
Two: Start a New Tradition
Traditions are Smile Moment gold. Pick one fun, meaningful, or even quirky activity to repeat year after year:
- A family talent show with silly prizes.
- A holiday photo scavenger hunt around the house or neighborhood.
- Everyone shares one story they’ve never told before.
These unique traditions become part of your family’s “collage,” offering new stories for future holiday tables.
Three: Create a “Memory Jar” for the Future
Set out a jar with slips of paper and pens. Throughout your time together, invite everyone to write down their favorite moments or things that made them smile. At the end of the season (or next year), read them together. This turns fleeting moments into written keepsakes you can cherish forever.
Make Time for Smile Moments in Your Business Too
As real estate professionals, Smile Moments don’t stop at home. These principles apply to your relationships with clients, too. Imagine the impact of leaving people with a positive, memorable experience they’ll share years down the road:
- Send handwritten notes to thank clients for their trust.
- Go the extra mile during closings to make it special.
- Host client appreciation events or SMILE Stops™ throughout the year.
Small moments of joy add up to a career filled with lasting, positive connections.
What’s Next for You?
Power Agents®, there’s no better time to plan for your next big Smile Moments—both personally and professionally. The 2024 holiday season is the perfect springboard for 2025. Visit the Webinars on Demand tab in the Classroom for the training, tools, and inspiration you need to make the coming year your best yet.
Remember: The moments you create today—whether with loved ones, clients, or yourself—are tomorrow’s Smile Moments. Start building your collage.
What Smile Moment will you create next?
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