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“Leadership is about empathy. It is about having the ability to relate to and connect with people for the purpose of inspiring and empowering their lives.” – Oprah Winfrey 

As real estate leaders, this quote by Oprah Winfrey may resonate with your desire to lead, empower, and inspire your team significantly. But how can you embody this empathetic leadership and translate this quality into actionable steps? The trick lies not in grand gestures but in your daily interactions and conversations.  

Related reading: Being A Heart-Centered Real Estate Agent Will Set You Apart 

Identifying Your Empathy Quotient: Are You an Empathetic Leader? 

You can assess your quality of empathy, often dubbed the ‘Empathy Quotient’, by reflecting on your interactions with your team. Ask yourself: How often do you take the time to understand their perspectives? Are you open to their ideas, even when they challenge your own? Do you respond to their feelings with care and respect, or are you dismissive and impatient? Remember, an empathetic leader does more than just sympathize. They take the time to make genuine connections, foster a sense of trust, and motivate their team members by acknowledging their unique viewpoints and contributions. Gauging your empathy quotient is the first bold step towards becoming that empathetic leader. 

Not sure what your Empathy Quotient is? Take this quick test to see: Psychology Tools – Empathy Quotient 

Related reading: Finding Your Optimal Real Estate Leadership Style 

The Role of Emotional Intelligence in Empowering Your Team 

As a leader, developing your emotional intelligence is crucial to your ability to empathize and connect with your team. Emotional intelligence, simply put, is the ability to understand and manage your own emotions while also recognizing and influencing the emotions of others. By enhancing your emotional intelligence, you can better understand your team’s feelings and motivations and use this knowledge to empower them to reach their full potential. 

92% of CEOs say their organization is empathetic, but only 50% of employees agree. If this is true for your team, it might mean your emotional intelligence isn’t quite where it should be. By taking the time to connect with your team members (even one-on-one) to gauge where your company falls on the emotional intelligence scale, you can help pivot and start moving in the right direction. 

Studies show that teams led by empathetic leaders who display high emotional intelligence perform at higher levels, are more innovative, and report greater job satisfaction. So how can you boost your emotional intelligence? There are several validated emotional intelligence tools and exercises, such as those offered in the Positive Psychology Toolkit, designed to help individuals understand and effectively use emotions in their interactions with others. Regular practice of these exercises can greatly enhance your ability to lead empathetically and empower your team. 

Empathy in Action: Practical Ways to Show You Care 

Empathy, as Oprah Winfrey stated, is at the core of leadership. It is about building connections that inspire and empower people. So, how can you, as a leader, practice empathy in real estate and embody these traits? 

• Aim to understand, not just hear, the perspectives of others. This could mean truly listening to your team’s suggestions and concerns without getting defensive or opinionated. This is the time to set yourself aside and just listen.  
• Create a safe space where vulnerability is not only allowed but encouraged. When your team members don’t feel judged or criticized but heard and valued as human beings, this develops trust and mutual understanding.  
• Emphasize the value of each individual’s role in projects. This shows your team that their work matters – an invaluable motivator, and praise goes a long way in creating a positive environment.  
• Assure your team that you’re there to support them and help them grow in whatever way they need. Acts of kindness can go a long way in creating a culture of empathy.  

Whether that’s spending time assisting them with a challenge or celebrating their personal and professional wins, remember that empathy is something you demonstrate through actions, not just words. 

For Your Agents… 

Empathy is the cornerstone of our industry, igniting connections that inspire and uplift lives. This philosophy also drives our team culture to its core. We’re committed to fostering deeper understanding among ourselves, actively listening, and embracing the richness of our diverse perspectives. Our differences are not divisions but sources of strength that unite us. 

Beyond our team, empathy extends to our clients. We seek to understand their dreams and needs, forging bonds that go beyond business transactions. Together, we embark on the journey of finding their perfect home or property, infusing it with the empathy that defines us so we are able to truly serve our clients. 

Know that agents do NOT have to go it alone in this market. 

Our goal is to bring the tools, training, and coaching to not only survive the shifts – but also build solid, dependable foundations they can count on and help them build clients for life. If that sounds like a goal that can help you reach YOUR goals – then join us for our Free Weekly Real Estate Webinar Training Series! Click here or the graphic below to register for the next one! 

Darryl Davis is an award-winning international speaker, real estate and business coach, and best-selling author of three books, all published by McGraw Hill Publishers.       

For more than 35 years, Darryl has spoken to and trained more than 100,000 sales professionals around the globe to more than double their production year after year. His book,  How to Become a Power Agent in Real Estate, tops Amazon’s charts for one of the most sold books to real estate agents.       

He was awarded the Certified Speaking Professional (CSP) designation by the National Speaker’s Association, which is given to less than 2% of all speakers worldwide.       

Whether from a stage or Zooming into a virtual room, Darryl’s extraordinary humor, relatability, and natural gift for teaching real-world, results-producing skills and mindsets to audiences have made him a client favorite throughout his career.       

Audiences will laugh, learn, and ultimately walk away better prepared for a changing world, with the tools, skills, and training they need to build their businesses with more ease and less stress and to design lives and careers worth smiling about.       

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