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October 3, 2025

Fear Lives in the Dark: Why POWER AGENTS® Are Today’s Lamplighters

Fear has always thrived in darkness, but the moment light appears, fear loses power. The light shows us we’re not alone, but have a community around us. 

Before electricity bathed our cities in steady light, there were lamplighters. Each evening, these men and women would walk the cobblestone streets, carrying long poles tipped with flame. One by one, they lit the lamps that lined the streets and avenues. Their job wasn’t glamorous, but it was vital.  

Without them, towns would be left in darkness – unsafe, uncertain, and full of shadows. Citizens were vulnerable to those who would take advantage of the darkness, so to the people of those times, lamplighters weren’t just workers. They were bringers of hope and destroyers of fear. Their flames transformed the night, turning danger into safety and fear into courage. 

Related reading: Real Estate Inspirations: Being The Flashlight And Shining Your Light For Others 

Fear Lives in the Dark 

Fear has always thrived in darkness. In the absence of light, our minds magnify every shadow, every sound, every uncertainty. Darkness blurs the path ahead, making us hesitate. We get stuck in the “what ifs” and the unknown. We feel alone, and that’s when many of us get scared. Sound familiar?  

But here’s the thing: the moment light appears, that fear loses its power. Light reveals the truth. It illuminates the path. It reminds us we are not alone, but have a whole community  at our backs. 

That’s what lamplighters gave their communities — not just physical light, but courage, clarity, and peace of mind. 

The Lamplighters of Real Estate 

Fast forward to today, and while we no longer rely on kerosene lamps or gaslights to guide us through the night, the need for lamplighters hasn’t gone away. 

In real estate, the darkness doesn’t come from a lack of streetlights. It comes from uncertainty: 

  • Buyers wonder if they’ll ever be able to afford a home. 
  • Sellers worry they won’t get the value they need. 
  • Families fear making the wrong choice about their future. 
  • Agents feel overwhelmed by a shifting market and constant changes. 
  • Agents are crippled by the fear of rejection or making a mistake. 

This is where POWER AGENTS® step in. Like the lamplighters of old, they bring light into the lives of others. 

How Power Agents® Light the Way 

Every conversation with a nervous client is a chance to spark courage. Every explanation of the process clears away confusion. Every reassurance and solution pushes back fear.  Every time you pick up the phone to prospect, you sharpen your skills. 

POWER AGENTS® don’t just sell homes — they carry the torch of service, empathy, and hope. They light the way for clients walking into unknown territory, showing them the steps, illuminating the risks, and helping them see the opportunities. They act as Luminaries every time they aid a fellow agent who is struggling with confusion. 

When you act as a lamplighter for your community, you aren’t simply helping people buy and sell property. You’re helping them move forward without fear. 

The Ripple Effect of Light 

One flame doesn’t just light a lamp. It can spread. And the more lamps that glow, the brighter the whole city becomes. 

It’s the same with the work POWER AGENTS® do. Each act of service brightens not just one client’s life but strengthens entire neighborhoods and communities. Agents who lead with courage and kindness set off a chain reaction of confidence, resilience, and trust. 

And just as it was in centuries past, fear cannot survive in that light. 

Related reading: The Tattooed Buddha – 11 Ways to Be a Light in the Darkness 

The Call to Be a Lamplighter 

As author Seth Adam Smith wrote, “You cannot defeat darkness by running from it, nor can you conquer your inner demons by hiding them from the world. In order to defeat the darkness, you must bring it into the light.” Every day, you have a choice: to stay in your corner of the world dimmed by uncertainty, or to walk boldly forward with your torch lit, lighting the torches of others who have lost their way. 

As a POWER AGENT®, you’ve chosen the latter. You are the lamplighter — spreading light where others only see shadows. You are the one who transforms fear into faith and hesitation into action.  

So, keep lighting the way. Keep showing up with service, courage, and compassion. Because fear lives in the dark, but as long as there are lamplighters like you, the dark never wins. 

Related reading: The Fastest Way Out of a Real Estate Slump 

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