Why Going to the Listing Agent Doesn’t Save You Money – It Costs You More Than You Think
Skipping a buyer’s agent doesn’t save money — it sacrifices protection, negotiation power, and expert guidance when you need it most.
It’s the biggest transaction of your life, so why trust someone who isn’t in your corner? Learn why every home buyer should have their own agent.
Let’s get real: You wouldn’t hire your ex’s divorce attorney to represent you, right?
So why would you walk into the biggest financial transaction of your life and expect the seller’s agent to represent your best interests?
Spoiler alert: They won’t. They can’t. And legally? They’re not even supposed to.
Whose Team Are They On?
The listing agent has one job: get the seller the most money and the best possible terms. Period. That’s who they represent. That’s where their fiduciary loyalty lies. That’s the legal contract they signed.
Even if they’re friendly. Even if they hand you a flyer and offer to show you around. Even if they say they’ll “help with the paperwork.” They might be the nicest, sweetest, and most caring person you’ve ever had the pleasure of meeting…but it doesn’t change the fact that they work for the seller.
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The Myth of the Money-Saving Shortcut
Some buyers think, “If I go straight to the listing agent, maybe I’ll save a little money.” This is absolutely wrong, and here’s why:
In most cases, the seller already factored both agents’ commissions into the home’s price. So, the fee to compensate a buyer’s agent is baked in. If you skip having your own representation, guess what? The listing agent doesn’t give you a discount—they just keep both sides of the commission.
You’re not saving money — you’re just giving up your seat at the negotiation table.
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What You Lose When You Don’t Have a Buyer’s Agent
Let me break it down:
- No watchdog. The listing agent isn’t pointing out the crack in the foundation or the leaky roof. That’s not their job.
- No pricing protection. They’re not running a Comparative Market Analysis (CMA) to help you avoid overpaying.
- No negotiation support. They’re not fighting for seller concessions, closing credits, or favorable contingencies. They’re working to get the seller top dollar.
- No one in your corner. From contract to closing, you’re flying solo—while the other side has a professional protecting their interests.
It’s like stepping into a boxing ring with Muhammad Ali with no gloves, no coach, and no clue what an uppercut is. You can hope for the best, but let’s face it, you don’t stand a chance.
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What a Buyer’s Agent Brings to the Table
So, what does having representation really mean for you? A whole lot. A dedicated buyer’s agent is your:
- Strategist: Helping you structure smart offers to win over the sellers while avoiding the common pitfalls that novice negotiators face.
- Shield: Protecting you from hidden legal contract language that could come back to bite you.
- Sword: Negotiating fiercely for your best deal — the lowest possible price and the best possible terms.
- Support system: Walking you through the process step-by-step so you’re not overwhelmed, confused, or taken advantage of.
The real estate transaction can be remarkably complicated, but your agent will ensure that you’re protected.
And again—most of the time, you’ve already paid for this service (via the home’s price). Not using it? That’s like buying a new car and refusing to drive it because you like the challenge of walking 20 miles.
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The Bottom Line
Buying a home is not the time to take shortcuts. It’s not the time to roll the dice and hope the person on the other side of the table “plays nice.” This is likely the biggest transaction you will ever make in your life, and it’s a time to be protected, empowered, and guided by someone who’s loyal to you.
You don’t save money by going to the listing agent. You just lose your advocate. In a transaction this big? That loss can cost you way more than you think.
The Best Move You Can Make as a Buyer? Hire a POWER AGENT®.
Not all real estate agents are created equal. If you want someone who puts you first, understands the stakes, and knows how to guide you through every step of the transaction with clarity and confidence — then you want a POWER AGENT®. These are the real estate pros trained to advocate fiercely, negotiate wisely, and communicate in a way that makes even the most complex situations feel simple.
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